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5 Ways Narcissists Use Money to Abuse You.

Narcissists crave having power over others in order to feel better about themselves, and money is a tool they use to manipulate and control.

Candace Ranee
5 min readMay 12, 2022
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Money is an essential thing we need to live. Having money gives us safety. You can pay your bills, eat, keep a roof over your head and do lots of fun things when you have money.

Money is freedom!

Narcissists do not want their partners to have freedom or control over their autonomy. The narcissist desires having that power and control over you. They are known for their grandiosity, superiority, entitlement, and lack of empathy. They need power over you to feel safe in the relationship

Here are 5 money habits that narcissists have.

Narcissists Lie About Their Finances.

In intimate relationships, narcissists will attempt to keep you in the dark about their finances and will often lie about the amount of money they really have. This is especially true during the love bombing. They are experts at future faking extravagant lifestyles and pretending to have a successful career.

My abuser bragged about his parent's money and his military career all while he himself was a…

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Candace Ranee
Candace Ranee

Written by Candace Ranee

Candace studied Sociology at Bowling Green State University. She is a writer and a DV Survivor

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