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Why You Get Involved With a Second Narcissist
Somebody who is less assuming and more giving can also be a malicious and dangerous narcissist.
It is so easy to get involved with a second narcissist. If you initially fell into a relationship with an overt narcissist, because you were attracted to what appeared to be confidence, passion, and charisma, you’re going to stay away from flamboyant individuals.
After being destroyed by a narcissist, you did your research and tried to be very aware and wary of people you connect with. As a result, you look for someone less obvious, more responsible, and somebody who doesn’t need to dominate all conversations.
You become hyper-aware of loud individuals that blatantly display selfishness or arrogance. You are only interested in pursuing a partner who cares for others, as well as you and your relationship.
A person connected to charity with good standing in the community is your new type.
Unbeknownst to you, somebody who is humble and giving can also be a malicious and dangerous narcissist.
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