The grey rock method may be enough to deter some narcissists, but it is not safe for every victim of abuse. — Narcissists are individuals who crave the admiration of others. They strive for attention and cannot endure criticism or any type of disappointment. Narcissists are a False Self. They wear a mask and will do whatever it takes to keep that mask in place. This includes controlling and abusing others.

A breadcrumbers tactics are much more damaging than you might think. — I have a very close girlfriend that has wasted five years of her life on a man that consistently bread crumbs her. …

Narcissists have a distorted view of reality, and often will state facts based on their feelings. They do this because their brain processes their own reality based on their dysfunctional inner dialogue. — If you have had experience with a narcissist, you’ve no doubt been involved in many exhausting arguments with them. These disturbing engagements often go into an endless circle of craziness because the narcissist has wrong information, yet still believes they are correct. If you try to correct their erroneous belief…

Narcissists live in a carefully constructed fake world and will use many manipulation techniques to keep you from seeking the truth. — The truth and a narcissist are not something any of us would ever put together. The most common MO of a narcissist is pathological lying. They construct a house of cards around themselves that they use to interact with the world. Their use of gaslighting and deception to protect their…

Ms. Bredehoft's media tour immediately after losing the defamation trial, was incredibly distasteful and quite cringe. Why did she do it? — Elaine Bredehoft was the lead attorney for Amber Heard in the Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard defamation trial. Ms. Bredehoft has been consistently recognized in publications as one of the Top Lawyers in Virginia, Washington, D.C. & Baltimore and is frequently ranked as one of the top ten lawyers, as…

I’m not a “super fan” and I won’t support an abuser simply because we share a gender. — I was reading yet another article here on Medium where a female author was defending Amber Heard and claiming she was the true victim! It still astounds me that there are so many individuals that blindly support an abuser simply because the abuser is a woman. The wild part of…

Narcissists cannot cope with unmet needs and will become hysterical, volatile, or rageful towards themselves or others. — When a narcissist is unable to have something they want they will become unhinged because of it. If you are familiar with the horrors of living with a narcissist you will understand this phenomenon very well. Narcissists look down on other people to maintain the positive image they hold about…

“Over the years I have felt the truest, purest love — the love of God, really, I imagine that’s what God’s love feels like — is the love that comes from your dog.” ~ Oprah Winfrey — Oprah Winfrey really just said it best. The love I feel from my dog could only be compared to the purest form of adulation and devotion, which some call God. …

We are socialized to breed attachment due to old trauma and codependency. — We all were conditioned, from a very young age, with many different beliefs about love that are actually quite toxic. For some of us, it is religious and cultural but for all of us, it is the media that has brainwashed us with unhealthy ideas about what love is. We…